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Erotica 201: Writing & Publishing

In this three-hour virtual workshop, Rachel Kramer Bussel, professional erotica author and editor of over 70 anthologies, including The Big Book of Orgasms and the Best Women's Erotica of the Year series, will take you through the ins and outs of modern erotic writing and explore how to make your sex scenes sizzle.

$30 – $40

Love Hurts… but Sex Doesn’t Have To!

Any form of unwanted pain during or after sex can be challenging and impact our enjoyment and pleasure. Pain can run the spectrum from acute to chronic, localized to referred, and everything in between. Come join pelvic health specialist Essie Neeway as she talks all things 'sex pain relief.'

$10

(Anti) Racism & Ethical Non-Monogamy: Not Just WPS (White People Sh*t)

Those of us who are both non-monogamous and non-white often play double duty as ambassadors for non-monogamy in our personal communities and ambassadors for BIPOC people in non-monogamous ones. This workshop with Sexology Bae is an opportunity to educate across communities, because clear language and definitions help reduce stigma.

$15 – $25

Introduction to Rope Bondage

Does the idea of restraint turn you on? In this class with Stella Harris, you'll learn basic safety and bondage-focused negotiation along with the single column tie and double column tie. You'll walk away with ways to use rope to build intimacy and connection while you're tying, and tricks to help you build confidence as a beginner.

$15 – $25

Badass Boundaries for Modern Babes! (sponsored by Jems Condoms)

She Bop and Jems Condoms are here to say it's possible to have all the sexy, fun times without violating your own or someone else's boundaries. In this sponsored class taught by Miss V, we'll be covering not just to how take care of yourself, but how to do so while being your hot, badass self. Plus, all attendees will have the chance to win a swag bag from Jems!

$5

Pleasure Mastery Workshop: An Introduction to Erotic Blueprints™

Do you know what your Erotic Blueprint™ is? It's the unique map to your arousal! There are 5 types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, & Shapeshifter. Each blueprint has very specific turn ons, turn offs, superpowers and challenges. In this workshop, Jessie Fresh will teach you all about your own Erotic Blueprints needs and desires, as well as any lover you encounter.

$15 – $25

Juneteenth Pre-Party!

Celebrate community and sex positivity with us at our Juneteenth-themed party! This free, private event is by Black folks, for Black folks! She Bop's CJ and Ayanna will be your hosts while you browse, mingle, ask questions, and win some toys and local goodies in our raffle. Come for the community, leave with a full heart and some treats for the bedroom!

Free

How to F*ck (as) a Trans Woman

Gender transitioning is no easy feat. There are social, familial, community, medical, financial, and psychological factors to consider. But there is one factor not frequently discussed: the sexual component. It is indeed possible to have an amazing sex life as a trans woman, but it requires essentially learning how to have sex all over again. Well, Miss V is here to help!

$15 – $25

Learn the Magic of Squirting!

Whether you've squirted before or made someone else squirt, this workshop with Marla Renee Stewart aims to give you all the tips, tricks, and secrets to get people to squirt. You will learn techniques for different vulvas and clitoral sizes, knowledge of the most sensitive parts of the vulva and vagina, and how to apply seduction techniques.

$15 – $25

Sex Ed QUICKIE: Getting Out of Your Head & Into Ecstasy!

Too many people miss out on the full pleasure of sex because they're in their head, not in the sensations of their body. It doesn't need to be that way! In this 45-minute QUICKIE, Jessie Fresh will share some simple techniques to bring you back to the sexual ecstasy that's possible for you. 

$10 – $15