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Boundaries That Get You Off: How to Pleasure-Focus Communication in BDSM Negotiations

Setting boundaries and negotiating limits is crucial when exploring kink and BDSM, but the process doesn't have to be dull or overwhelming! Join sexologist and intimacy educator Lilithfoxx as she discusses pleasure-focused and practical tips for effective, inclusive, trauma-informed, and mindful communication in BDSM.

$15 – $25

Queer Your Orgasm!

Having an orgasm the same way every time can get redundant. If you're bored with your masturbation routine, this class with Marla Renee Stewart is for you! In this workshop, we're celebrating our pride by learning ways to queer our orgasms, whether on our own or with someone else.

$15 – $25

Sex Ed QUICKIE: The Ultimate Orgasm — Building Sexual Energy with Edging

Do you want your orgasms to feel consistently satisfying, delivering the full power of your passion? Are you adventurous to try new things in pursuit of great sex? Edging is a technique to build sexual energy and finish with an intense wave of pleasure. This workshop with Jessie Fresh is about creating the most pleasurable lovemaking you ever had.

$10 – $15

Knuckle Up: Vaginal & Anal Fisting

Attention all Size Kings and Queens! Fisting often reads as wildly inaccessible to folks who have only seen it on their computer screens, yet it's one of the most intimately connective, revolutionary sex acts you can engage in. Manual sex aficionado Andre Shakti is ready to knuckle up and show you how to experiment safely with the best sex toys we come equipped with: our fingers!

$15 – $25

Discovering Your Dominance

Are you new to kink? Has a partner asked you to take control but you're not sure how? Do you see Cat Woman and think, I wish that was me? Do whips give you a special tingle? This class is for you! Join Ms. Eve for a workshop designed to guide new players into the murky waters of kink — and pop you out the other side with tools and techniques to start your dominance journey!

$15 – $25

Femme for Femme Community Night (FREE in-person event)

Come celebrate Portland’s Femme for Femme community at She Bop! This is a FREE, private event by and for queer, lesbian, bi, and/or pansexual fem(me)s who love fem(me)s. Anyone who considers themselves fem of center is encouraged to join us. We will have refreshing drinks, games, and gifts to take home!

Free

Pleasure is More Than PIV: Exploring Non-Penetrative Sex

The common narrative is that sex is penetrative (generally penis in vagina), but what if we told you there was a whole world of pleasure that didn't involve penetration? Well, there is! Join Javay da BAE for a deep dive into non-penetrative sex and how truly amazing it can be.

$15 – $25

Service and Submission as a Lifestyle

Do you want to make service more of a lifestyle? Whether you are brand new and asking yourself "is service for me?" or a hardened lifestyler looking for tips to expand and perfect your service, this class with seasoned kinkster lily will help you look at new and unique ways to serve.

$15 – $25

Slow Burn Burlesque

Feel your sensual power and mesmerize your audience of one or many, with tantalizing Slow Burn Burlesque. High Priestess of Tease Eva D'Luscious will guide you through exercises to find joy in your body, slinky moves to express yourself, and the 4Ps of Striptease — so you can take it off with ease.

$15 – $25

Penis to Prostate: A Guide to Internal and External Pleasure

In this class, Stella Harris will discuss communication techniques and ways to create intimacy that don't require an erection, as well as how to relax, slow down, and enjoy a range of sensations without being goal-oriented or rushing to a finish line. This class is for anyone with a penis or prostate, or who likes playing with them!

$15 – $25